Positivity Lounge
Powering my strength daily
From the very beginning, I wanted to control the message about my diagnosis. I didn't want to be lumped into a category of statistics or be thought of in a sad way. With your help, I did just that. I focused on the positive aspects of me. I am the strongest physically and mentally than ever before. I consider myself a pretty badass boss-lady in my career and in my life. Since moving to Vancouver I have continued to train my mind to see the light, the positive and, to always find learnings from each of my experiences. After reading this page you will see first hand why I have continued to strive for greatness even through the toughest challenge life has ever thrown at me.
The one word that describes my journey, is gratitude. I couldn't even to begin to thank all of you for your inspiring and supportive kindness throughout my journey. It is these words, that have kept me moving forward and keep my positive attitude front and centre. Below (in no particular order) is a sampling of the generosity I have received. There were also many face to face words, hugs, tears, gifts, Beyoncé GIFs, weird cat photos and messages that I have counted for in my heart. From the beginning of all this, I have asked everyone to send positive vibes into the universe to give me the strength and courage to push on. I truly believe it is this energy sent from all over the world has made my journey successful thus far. I feel the love each and every day and there are no words to be able to thank all of you so, I will just keep striving for greatness to live up to the collection of amazing people surrounding me near and far. Thank you.
“Always remember, you are braver than you think, stronger than you seem, and loved more than you know.”
“You are honestly one of the strongest, most badass bitches to ever walk the earth and I know you’re going to tackle any challenge ahead. But for those days you doubt yourself, know I’m here rooting for you.”
“You ARE a superstar! To observe your fierce strength and humbling presence has been inspiring. I believe in you and your choices, and will always have your back.”
“If not for our struggles, we would not know our strength. Even at those touch & go times, we perservere cuz we bad ass.”
“You are so strong and determined and are such an inspiration.”
- tessa
“The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because shit worked out. They got that way because shit went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”
“You are a north star of bad assery, you truly inspire.”
“...in awe of how brave and composed you are in the face of such a terrible, unfathomable turn of events.””
“You are so remarkably strong and brave. I am so proud to call you my friend”
- Jules
“I will hold you close in my thoughts and heart as you embark on a journey to health you never imagined. You are an amazing young woman.”
“I wish I could be there with you but positive vibes are being sent from Florida every day. I’ll be with you every step of the way! You got this!”
“Keep smiling and showing off that positive attitude, it’s so inspiring. You are truly amazing!”
“My rock, my north star, my good friend and sometimes truly my everything”
“Keep that positive attitude no matter what they throw at you and know that we are all thinking and saying a prayer for you. If and when you are feeling down just give yourself a hug and remember that hugs from us are always coming your way no matter what.”
“You are strong, a fighter and the stadium is full of your fans cheering you on!”
- Andrea
“You are an amazing woman!”
“Not too many people have entered my life and made such a profound impact. You never cease to inspire me with your positive attitude and courage.”
“Always thinking of you and sending all the positive thoughts your way with a big scottish hug.”
“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it’s the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow.”
“ You are truly inspiring - Chloe and I always talk about how strong you’ve been through this whole journey. It’s seriously incredible and we both look up to you. ”
“You are honestly such an inspiration, Kelly. Your positivity through this incredibly tough time is moving.”
“You’re the toughest person I know and you’re killing it and I’m so so proud of you.”
“You are my hero. You’ve got this, you’re a warrior babe!!!”
“I’m amazed by you. ...what I DO know is that you are the strongest woman I’ve ever met and truly feel that so much good is coming your way, and that it will overcome.”
“I know few people who live as large as you do and have a positive upbeat attitude. It will carry you.”
- Jayne
“You are doing such an amazing job of taking care of yourself and making the right choices for your self-care, honey. I’m just in awe of how “on it” you remain to be, even through all of this. You’re amazing.”
“...we are so proud of your courage and strength. You are an inspiration to all of us!”
“You are amazing, strong and determined. You can do this beautiful!”
“[when she heard the news]...really fucking rough but then I remembered it’s you, Kelly O, and how if a bitch like cancer came knocking at your door, you’d look out the peephole and yell at the whore.”
“I sat with my anger long enough, until she told me her real name was grief”
- unknown author sent by Anna
“Proud of you and continually inspired by you!”
“Your outlook is incredible, and you’re going to kick cancer’s ass.”
““[when I unveiled myself as the L&L Instagram owner]...I was always like “who is this!”. For awhile I had come to terms with it being Batman’s softer side. Now I know it’s Kelly, and she is way more badass than Batman.””
“You are the strongest woman I know!”
“I think you are so incredibly beautiful and strong. I always feel lighter when I’m by your side.”
- Crystal
“What lies behind us, and what lies before us, are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”
“Life throws curve balls but remember we are athletic fuckers that can catch”
“We all have an unexpected reserve of strength inside that emerges when life puts us to the test.”